Psychology Stress

Most guys that suffer from approach anxiety are under the distinct impression that they are "bothering" a woman when they first ask them questions, no matter how in-direct or benign those questions are to her.

If you are having those same fears about bothering women with your openers to them, you really have to start getting out of that mindset by affirming to yourself that you can improve any girl's day with your conversation with her, and not destroy it.

The best way to go about this is by assuring yourself that you have quality conversation skills that will make a woman laugh or will captivate her with your story-telling abilities. But what if you don't actually have any of these abilities? Can you still believe that you can improve a woman's day just by talking to her?

Yes, you can. Even when your conversation is not as scintillating as you would hope it to be, you can still show her how excited you are with a certain subject or topic you are relating to her by your heightened emotional state.

If you open a girl with something like, "I noticed you coming out of the movie theater. What movie did you just see?" She will tell you "It was "Batman: The Dark Knight." You can then tell her how much you really want to see that movie because you loved the last one, "Batman Returns" and tell her how much you really like the director or actors in that one.

You can see where I'm going with this. As long as you can find a great topic or subject that you are genuinely interested in, you can really get the girl as emotionally involved in the topic as you are.

BE HONEST ABOUT YOUR INTEREST IN EVERY GIRL YOU TALK TO

But you really have to have a genuine interest in the topic to begin with, because then you will be comfortable talking about that subject matter and so will the girl. She will also begin "mirroring" your emotional state, so make sure that you are really demonstrating how excited you are about the subject so that she will stay interested in discussing the subject matter with you at length.

You can honestly make any girl's day once you have peaked her interest in talking to you and then saying that you have to leave in two minutes because you have a busy day in front of you.

If you've made a really good impression on her with your excitement level during the conversation, she will basically thrust her phone number or e-mail address and tell you to call her extremely soon.

It's amazing how many women out there are constantly looking for a real man who is confident with his mannerisms and his total outlook on life. Women are always in need of being around and talking to a new guy who actually "gets" what women are fond of in the opposite sex.

It's time for you to step up to women and take them out of their boring existences, just make sure you can find exciting topics for both you and her and you will go a long way in mastering the seduction game.

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